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Hi Paige, thank you for your comment. Finding the right ring can be so difficult! Have you considered getting a ring custom made? It could be a great option. Speak to a few local jewelers and see what they have to say. Most jewelers are delighted to work on projects that are a little different. Good luck!

-- Contributed by: K Pullen

I would love a pearl engagement ring. My boyfriend and myself have always loved and lived by the sea and I think a pearl captures what we have beautifully, because we are both real ocean babies. I would love to find a really unusual traditional setting though that has diamonds as well, but hard to find what I'm picturing.

-- Contributed by: Paige

Surelybeth, Of course, the affordability depends on your /your fiance's financial cir...stances, but you should be able to find a jeweler who can create that ring for you. Try visiting some local jewelery stores that do custom designs, and if you have a picture of what you want, you have a better chance of success. Definitely pursue your dream!

-- Contributed by: Ann M.

So, I've always had this dream wedding/engagement ring in mind, and now that I'm coming close to needing one, I wonder if it's even possible to find/make/afford. The ring itself would be three skinny bands, possibly two of white gold and one of yellow, or some other metal combination with the same ratio, all intertwined and surrounding, in some way, a pearl. I've never cared about the size of the pearl. I know this isn't traditional, but very symbolic for me, the bands representing myself, my husband, and God, and the pearl a symbol of my dream of someday returning to my God and being able to present my perfect pearl of virtue to him (figuratively of course). Anyway, possible?

-- Contributed by: surelybeth

Toughcookie - A pearl engagement ring can be lovely, and it should be fine for you to wear since you already take jewelry off to exercise and sleep. Yes, pearls can be more delicate, and I'd also recommend removing the ring during activities like housecleaning, doing dishes, cooking messy dishes (so food doesn't get into the setting), gardening, etc. As a music teacher, if you are regularly banging your hands into different things (and I can't imagine that you would be), you may want to safeguard the ring, but it should be fine -- they're more delicate, yes, but they're not going to be severely damaged by normal wear. As a precaution, consider purchasing a protection plan from the jeweler but read the fine print about damage repair and replacement before adding that expense.

-- Contributed by: Mayntz

ever since i was younger, diamonds never impressed me, neither have other gemstones except for the pearl. it's the only one i am interested in. i want to be able to have a pearl engagement ring, but everyone tells me its a useless cause because they're terrible to wear. i alway take off all jewelery when i exercise and sleep, that i know i have to with that ring, but will working as a music teacher with younger children be a bad activity to do with a pearl ring on?

-- Contributed by: toughcookie

Patomaru -- It is true that pearls are softer gems that can be more easily damaged by everyday wear and tear, but that shouldn't deter you from choosing a pearl engagement ring if you are careful. First, consider your girlfriend's lifestyle -- if she is really into athletics and outdoor activities, there is a greater chance that a pearl ring could be damaged. Similarly, if she has a demanding, hands-on career it could be a problem and pearls may not be the best choice. If, on the other hand, she prefers quieter pursuits, a pearl ring could suit her very nicely. You will need to take a bit better care of the ring -- more frequent inspections, for example, and she will want to always remember to remove it when using cleaning chemicals or engaging in activities that could potentially damage the ring. With proper care, however, a pearl ring can last quite long and be just as beautiful as the day she says yes.

-- Contributed by: Mayntz

I am looking to buy an engagement ring for my girlfriend, and since her birthday is in June I thought a pearl engagement ring would be nice. Plus there is a place near my house in Japan that cultivates pearls and does the jewelry themselves (or so I have heard. I am going there next week to look) But I was reading wikipedia and it meantioned that not many people use pearls because of their softness. Is that something that should be worried about? Does that mean it probably won't stand up to the wears and tears of everyday use? Thank you.

-- Contributed by: patomaru

Hi John,

First, you really need to find out what her type of style may be, but from what you said she seems like the type of woman who may appreciate a unique style of ring. With a petite frame she probably has delicate hands, so you want to avoid anything too bulky or clunky that would overpower her fingers, and if she's very stylish she'll probably most appreciate platinum or another contemporary type of metal rather than the classic (and sometimes predicatable) yellow gold. A unique diamond shape may be in order -- Asschers, radiant, or princess, perhaps. She may also appreciate a colored diamond -- Pink Diamonds are feminine and delicate while still being unique and classy. Here are some articles to get you started and to give you great ideas on what types of things to look for:

I'd be happy to help if you have other specific questions!

-- Contributed by: Mayntz

Needing something for a women who is Effervescent and is a True Diamond herself. She has a pettite frame, and she is very stylish. I may need your help to put this one together.

Thank you!

-- Contributed by: John Stephens
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