Proposing with a Diamond Engagement Ring

Surprise! Proposing with a Diamond Engagement Ring

If you are a true romantic, the answer is yes. Most girls dream of a down-on-one-knee proposal accompanied by the perfect diamond ring chosen by the man who understands her completely. Of course there are also modern women who would rather pop the question themselves or pick out their own engagement ring.

Don’t worry, if your sweetheart is intent on a specific ring she will take you to the nearest jewelry store and say, “That’s the one I want.” However, if you think your intended is aware of the possibility of marriage and there haven’t been any longing glances at the jewelry counter as you walk through the mall, you can be sure she’s hoping you’ll do the choosing.

If you don't have any idea about her preferences, it never hurts to ask. Most likely you have discussed the possibility of marriage, and she will be touched by the fact that you want to choose something she is sure to treasure. Just because you ask her preferences about shape, color, and setting does not mean the ring itself won't be a surprise.

How to Choose the Perfect Engagement Ring

There are several ways to determine what type of engagement ring would best suit her. First, take inventory of her current jewelry. Does she wear lots of flashy jewelry or just a few simple pieces? Does she seem to prefer gold or silver/platinum? Does she like modern styles or vintage?

Next you can enlist the help of her friends. Ask her closest friend or a family member to go with you to the jewelry store. Try not to be overwhelmed! Ask the jeweler to show you only rings in your price range.

Once you’ve determined:

• the preferred shape of diamond;
• whether the ring should be gold, platinum, white gold or a different metal;
• how many carats you can afford;
• and the style of setting (prong, flush, or bezel)

you’re ready to find the best jeweler for your needs. You will want to shop around to make certain you’re getting the best price from a reputable jeweler who provides certificates from GIA (Gemological Institute of America) or another accredited organization.

Now you’re ready to purchase the perfect engagement ring. All that’s left is planning the words you’ll use and hoping she’ll say “yes.”

Tips for Proposing with a Diamond Engagement Ring

Ideally, you want to propose in a memorable, romantic setting. Take your intended's preferences into consideration when making any elaborate plans: for example, if she is shy, she may not appreciate a public display while you are proposing with a diamond engagement ring.

To highlight the ring you're offering, be certain there is sufficient light for her to see the diamond's sparkle. While starlight or moonlight may seem ultimately romantic, she will first strive to see the ring in a better light.

The ring should certainly be cleaned before you propose. While a jeweler will clean it when you first purchase it, if you have had the ring for some time while waiting for the right moment, it would be best to return to the jeweler for a quick cleaning. This will allow the diamond to shine its best during its most important moment.