Promise Rings for Men

What is Promised

A promise ring signifies the commitment and promise that a couple has made to each other. The promise ring is often worn pre-engagement during the stage when a couple are fully committed to each other, but yet to seal this with the announcement of an engagement or an actual marriage proposal. A man’s promise ring has an additional use, as sometimes it is worn as an alternative to an engagement ring.

The exchange of rings to signify commitment is a long tradition with roots in ancient civilizations. Over time these rings took on the form of the rings we know now as engagement and wedding rings. The promise ring is a development of this tradition, although it has only recently taken on an identity of its own. There is not the range of traditions and customs surrounding the promise ring which gives a couple a great degree of flexibility. A promise ring can be made of any metal, be of any size or shape, and worn on any finger. This means that a ring can be found for even the most reluctant male!

Choosing Promise Rings for Men

There are a few important features to bear in mind when choosing a promise ring for a male. Ensuring that the ring is wearable and suitable for a man's lifestyle is vital if the ring is to be worn daily.

Metal

Picking the right metal for a promise ring is important. A soft metal might not be practical for some professions as it will scratch and even be knocked out of shape. Harder metals such as tungsten are good alternatives, so is silver, which is hard wearing and widely available.

Style

Plain rings are often more practical for day to day wear. Plain rings are easier to keep clean making them an essential choice for someone working in the health profession or anywhere where the ring may be dirty frequently. Highly decorated rings can also catch on clothing and machinery meaning that they could be dangerous in some environments.

Plain rings with a low profile are a good alternative. These needn’t be boring: different metals or techniques such as mokume gane can make an exciting choice.

Other styles of ring include Celtic rings. The strong symbolism in Claddagh rings makes them a good choice for promise rings.

Stones

There is no reason why a promise ring cannot be set with stones. If the ring is being worn as an alternative to an engagement ring then this could be a very attractive choice. A single diamond set into a band would reflect the solitaire ring of his fiancé or perhaps the ring could be set with a colored stone to complement the stones in a cluster ring.

Carved stones can be attractive and can make a striking statement. Gemstones are available in a wide range of colors and shapes. Hard wearing stones such as agates make an excellent choice.

Buying a Ring for a Man

Suitable rings can be bought from a variety of stores. Some will sell rings specifically as promise rings, other stores will be happy to make suggestions as to suitable rings.

When buying promise rings for men it is useful to make some notes as to likes and dislikes first to avoid disappointment. This also makes it easier to keep focused when faced with a wide variety of choice.

If the ring is to be a surprise then buying a ring the right size might be a challenge. Many stores will resize rings, although it is worth checking this before buying.

Tips for Buying a Ring

• Buy from reputable jewelers and stores.
• If appropriate, make sure that the ring is hallmarked or stamped indicating the metal used.
• Avoid metals containing nickel as these can cause skin irritations.
• If a man doesn’t like wearing rings or they are impractical for his job, consider alternatives. A ring can be worn around the neck on a chain or a thong; or another item of jewelry can be designated as the symbol of commitment.

The most important feature of a promise ring is its significance. Whether the ring is a diamond encrusted platinum band or a copper curtain ring, the meaning is the same, and buying promise rings for men is a great way for women to promise their devotion, fidelity, and love, regardless of the ring style.